I can't believe you're going back...
Why? We had a great time, loved the food, people, culture etc. Also it is a growth area in our professional fields!your wife is going to stay indoors nearly all the time?
Not likely, she is the Scientific Attaché for the French Embassy... She got the job, and as an acadmic scientist (biophysicist/biochemist) it was not too difficult for me to find another lab there to continue my research (muscle disease in children)... So, it is not as though I’m dragging her there, nor do I think it will be a problem.
Of all the countries I've been to, I've never been harassed and treated as badly as I have in India. And I'm male. For women travelling alone, it is worse again.