"Survivorship bias is the logical error of concentrating on the people or things that "survived" some process and inadvertently overlooking those that didn't because of their lack of visibility."That's plural. Who else is complaining here? Also, please note that an explanation was provided for the issue, indicating that you aren't being 'overlooked'.
Based on a comment from a mod, there have been about 6 posts 'held for approval'. That's 6 posts over a period of several days, on a site that gets hundreds of posts per day (and well over 6 per day are spam that the mods quickly delete).
I'm sorry you had an issue with a link, etc., that the anti-spam filter flagged in a post -
one post, less than 0.4% of your total. But honestly, if you think it's a huge problem that is frustrating the entire CR community, despite the apparent lack of widespread complaining...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Egocentrism