Thanks for all the replies, I should have given you some background info. I have a canon 6d along with following lenses, 17-40, 24-105, 100L macro, and the 70-200 f4. The reason why i was torn is, my wife knows nothing about photography, only really cares if the camera is quick to take picture, we have tried the canon s100 for her, she hates the lag, we have tried micro 4/3, lens to camera size and holding camera out in front of her was awkward for her.
So i figured we can get another camera body, i was thinking of buying an 1.4 extender for my 70-200 to give me a little more reach but at 400.00 i figured i was better off buying a crop body to give me 1.6 extender. I was only thinking t5i because of the size for her. I liked the t5i over the t4i because it has all cross type focus points, but the 60d will fit my needs better. Decisions, decisions.