what you're doing in the example you describe is turning your 1.6x crop factor camera into a 3.2x crop factor camera
therefore, the equivalence you're looking for is the following:
* in terms of FoV and exposure, 35mm f/1.4 on 3.2x crop is equivalent to 70mm f/1.4 on 1.6x crop
* in terms of FoV and DoF, 35mm f/1.4 on 3.2x crop is equivalent to 70mm f/2.8 on 1.6x crop
therefore, you get exactly the same picture, in terms of FoV, exposure and DoF, with these two options:
* 35mm f/1.4 1/60s ISO 100 on 3.2x crop
* 70mm f/2.8 1/60s ISO 400 on 1.6x crop
see test here:
http://www.similaar.com/foto/doftest/doftest.html