I own both cameras and the 50mm f/1.4
Your choice really depends on how quickly you can add glass to your kit later on. Personally the 5D mk ll + 50mm f/1.4 is taken out of my bag for general use 95% of the time. As a walk around, a 50mm focal length is perfect. However if you are not patient with mastering that focal length or feel the need to get a bit of a variety, go with the 60D setup. The only issue with 60D setup you might run into is the focal length spacing of your lenses. It is better to zoom with your feet, in my opinion. You don't have anything above a 30mm which (at least for me) if you are shooting people at all, is a very uncomfortable focal length for the model as well as yourself. As far as DOF goes, 5D mk ll takes the cake. Filming, 60D is the winner.
Before you purchase (if possible) go to your local Canon dealer and ask to hold/try both camera bodies and lens combinations for a couple of minutes if you have yet to. I don't regret the purchase of either body, but let me tell you... The nifty fifty 1.4 is a must, regardless of your chosen body!