I trust the dxomark sensor numbers: if all you care about is image quality, the 5D3 is a small step up from the 5D2, but the D800 is a huge step up from the 5D3
if you're going to accuse dxomark of lying or purposedly skewing their results, please back that up with some proof, not just speculation
otherwise I'll think you're a fanboy, or upset that you're heavily invested on a camera system that's fallen far from the leading edge, and looking for excuses to avoid feeling bad about it
now, the score that's more troublesome for me is the DR score, and, if you're right, it should be extremely easy to provide proof of it
just bring your shiny new camera outside, put it on a tripod, and take two pictures that are exactly the same except for shutter speed: one is at 1/4000, the other is at 2" (not 1/2, but 2"); if both pictures show discernible detail in a given area (the same for both pictures), then the camera has 13 stops of DR or more; if you can't get that detail on both (i.e. either the 1/4000 is clipped to black, or the 2" is clipped to white, no matter how hard you fight with the RAW files), it has less than 13 stops of DR
of course, it would be great if you could do the same with the 5D2 (to see if there's an actual DR improvement with the 5D3, or just minimal as dxomark says) and with a camera that uses a modern Sony sensor (D800, D7000, nex-5n, nex-7, etc) (to see if those actually have the DR that dxomark claims they have) (I should point out that I already asked some D800 owners to run these tests from me, and playing with the RAW files I can confirm that it has well over 13 stops of DR)
I'm genuinely interested in your results, but I won't be following this thread any longer, so please PM me if you actually go out and test your camera, instead of ranting and speculating
Also, I have a theory to explain the dxomark DR results: Canon's ADC converters are not good enough for what the rest of the sensor can do, that's why the high-ISO DR is great but from a certain point no DR gains are appearing as you lower the ISO
(and no, I don't work for dxomark, or know anybody that does)
(and just 3 months ago I was accused of being a canon fanboy by my nikonian friends; luckily, I know the important investment is lenses, and have built a great Leica-R collection that will work on basically anything, including Canon, Nikon, Sony and Pentax)