My condolences, Craig. The same thing happened to a good friend of mine (her daughter was born two months early with a malformed lung). There was significant danger to the mother in her case, hopefully you didn't experience anything like that.
The most important thing is to celebrate the good times and be thankful for the great healthy family you have, and move on...
Take all the time you need with your family. We'll get by just fine without updates for a while :-).
