There is no one good tripod for all occasions...
I've got a 18+ lb Majestic that I used to carry thru the Everglades. Whew...
Old "Leica Tiltall" still going after 35 years
Assorted table top tinker-pods....
Think with tripods, is to be really good at stability, they have to have some weight.
Almost any tripod will work well _IF_ you add a sandbag from its column.