I ended up getting:
X-Rite i1Display Pro - Display Calibration (EODIS3)
It just came in on Sunday, I'm planning to break it to and experiment with doing my monitor.
I chose this because it also apparently works with iPhones and iPad.
I want this on my iPad Pro, as that I find myself doing a decent bit of work on it when I'm out and about.....and want to make sure it is representative of what will be printed potentially out of work done from it.
It appears the printer won't be shipping till Wednesday....apparently another one of the Adorama holidays in session they they close for.....but hoping to play with it maybe as soon as this coming weekend!!
Thanks for all the input here, interesting stuff.
I'm gonna research those links given here too about color management....I dunno how far down the rabbit hole I'll go, but I would like to learn at least the basics of it...especially for if I start sending things off for larger scale printing to print shops......
C