Thanks AmbientLight. Of course, now that I've uploaded the image, it appears over saturated again -_- Even in Firefox and IE10, which are supposedly setup for color management.
Since I don't seem to be getting anywhere, I guess my final question should be: Should I just trust Photoshop/Lightroom's interpretation, and trust that my photo's online look fine? Does that blog post look overly red to you?
At the end of the day, I guess I don't care if my wide gamut display is making my sRGB photos look wonky, as long as I know they actually look correct, and I'm not giving my customers screwed up stuff. Oddly enough, the print I just received from WHCC falls smack in the middle of the saturation levels I am seeing online and in LR/PS, so that's not much help either =) Thanks again for your help.