Neuro, Mt Spokane et. al. where do you typically have sharpness set? Or do you sharpen in post?
I use Raw, setting sharpening in Camera is only for jpegs.
I have a different default sharpening and NR set for each ISO in Lightroom, so its set automatically on import. Most raw images benefit from a little sharpening, LR 4 lets you sharpen selectively only the areas that need it, like hair. That must be done manually with the brush function.