I'm glad I came here for advice. It was hard for me to tell which was newer/better. I had also looked at the 70d. That 7d is a beast (didn't realize it was older), noticed right away how heavy that thing is! One huge drawback is having to find a CF memory card. They are expensive and hard to find it seems

I do like that it has more AF points. The 70d sounds better in terms of AF reliability. Altho I'm relying more on manual focus and getting better images because of it, sometimes I need AF to be spot on.
As far as what i shoot, I like birds and landscape. I do casual candids of family, but i'm more into the outdoors. My T3 is wonderful, but i feel like I need something better when it comes to resolution since it's only 12mp. And this is probably where I need the real lesson to be taught to me. My "other camera" was 24mp and it seemed that my pics were so much clearer because of resolution, or is there a mind game im losing here lol
The 7d was going for around $600. I'm reading alot of options here in the thread, so I may just hold off and see what's a good fit for me. All of your input is valuable, and I thank you all very much!
Oh and btw, i'm a she