Damn you 1DX!!!!!

[Valvebounce]

Hi Mackguyver
I'm fairly sure mine would notice the sizeable hole in the bank account! I do have mine gripped in readiness, but it is more practice for the day she permits it than deception! ;D

Cheers Graham.

Solution - buy a battery grip for your current body, then swap it out for a 1D X some day while she's gone - she'll never notice

True story ;D

 

[pwp]

Now, these days I'm looking to pair it with a cropped body so I'm killing myself over here waiting for the 7D2.

Don't keep holding your breath for the 7DII...besides it may not have voice annotation.
Just find yourself the perfect partner for your 1DX, the APS-H 1D MkIV. Plenty of good ones around. It'll kick the 7DII's pants.

-pw

 

[mackguyver]

Hi Mackguyver
I'm fairly sure mine would notice the sizeable hole in the bank account! I do have mine gripped in readiness, but it is more practice for the day she permits it than deception! ;D

Cheers Graham.

Solution - buy a battery grip for your current body, then swap it out for a 1D X some day while she's gone - she'll never notice

True story ;D

Graham, I was just being funny, my wife actually knew about the 1D X and even opened it when it came. She thought it was some beauty stuff she had ordered and couldn't figure out why the box was so heavy . Thankfully she has been really supportive of just about everything, but she would rather have me shoot flowers instead of alligators.

Lying to your spouse/partner is never a good idea, especially about money, however, a key to our marriage includes having two bank accounts and two AMEX cards

 

[Valvebounce]

Hi Mackguyver.
We have a very honest relationship, no secrets, well maybe a couple little ones, she is pretty supportive of my photography hobby, but not to the extent of me having a 1DX! The problem is we have expensive hobbies, she seems to be trying to collect all the Triumph motorbikes and scooters she can, I have a few Triumph cars, my mistresses, this all keeps us poor without the photography!
I'd probably rather photograph Gators, something I am unlikely to get involved with in the UK.
The thing with hobbies like we have, they know where to find us, and it won't be another woman's arms!

Cheers Graham.

Hi Mackguyver
I'm fairly sure mine would notice the sizeable hole in the bank account! I do have mine gripped in readiness, but it is more practice for the day she permits it than deception! ;D

Cheers Graham.

Solution - buy a battery grip for your current body, then swap it out for a 1D X some day while she's gone - she'll never notice

True story ;D

Graham, I was just being funny, my wife actually knew about the 1D X and even opened it when it came. She thought it was some beauty stuff she had ordered and couldn't figure out why the box was so heavy . Thankfully she has been really supportive of just about everything, but she would rather have me shoot flowers instead of alligators.

Lying to your spouse/partner is never a good idea, especially about money, however, a key to our marriage includes having two bank accounts and two AMEX cards

 

[mackguyver]

Hi Mackguyver.
We have a very honest relationship, no secrets, well maybe a couple little ones, she is pretty supportive of my photography hobby, but not to the extent of me having a 1DX! The problem is we have expensive hobbies, she seems to be trying to collect all the Triumph motorbikes and scooters she can, I have a few Triumph cars, my mistresses, this all keeps us poor without the photography!
I'd probably rather photograph Gators, something I am unlikely to get involved with in the UK.
The thing with hobbies like we have, they know where to find us, and it won't be another woman's arms!

Cheers Graham.

Triumphs? I'm sure you spend more on repairs than I do on camera gear They are wonderful, though, and have the charm that only the English can put into their cars & motorcycles. My other hobby is Porsches & BMWs and they are very clinical compared to British motors, but every bit as expensive to maintain. Sure, I might only have to service them once a year, but some repairs could easily pay for a 1D X or big white :'(

As for your last statement - that is very true. I tell my wife that if she's ever suspicious, all she has to do is review my timestamped photos and GPS logs - that and look at me when I come home reeking of sweat, sunscreen, and bug spray ;D

 

[Dylan777]

Hi Mackguyver.
We have a very honest relationship, no secrets, well maybe a couple little ones, she is pretty supportive of my photography hobby, but not to the extent of me having a 1DX! The problem is we have expensive hobbies, she seems to be trying to collect all the Triumph motorbikes and scooters she can, I have a few Triumph cars, my mistresses, this all keeps us poor without the photography!
I'd probably rather photograph Gators, something I am unlikely to get involved with in the UK.
The thing with hobbies like we have, they know where to find us, and it won't be another woman's arms!

Cheers Graham.

Triumphs? I'm sure you spend more on repairs than I do on camera gear They are wonderful, though, and have the charm that only the English can put into their cars & motorcycles. My other hobby is Porsches & BMWs and they are very clinical compared to British motors, but every bit as expensive to maintain. Sure, I might only have to service them once a year, but some repairs could easily pay for a 1D X or big white :'(

As for your last statement - that is very true. I tell my wife that if she's ever suspicious, all she has to do is review my timestamped photos and GPS logs - that and look at me when I come home reeking of sweat, sunscreen, and bug spray ;D

I know the feeling. The wife car is about 5yrs old now, she thinking Lexus next. I still like the solid feel from the german :

 

[mackguyver]

I know the feeling. The wife car is about 5yrs old now, she thinking Lexus next. I still like the solid feel from the german :

Jaaaa! I grew up in Germany so for me and the rest of my family, there is no substitute and we also like the ultimate driving machines 8)

 

[JPAZ]

The thing with hobbies like we have, they know where to find us, and it won't be another woman's arms!

My wife calls my computer "the other woman" but has been very supportive of my hobbies. I actually was encouraged to buy the 300 f/2.8 ii. But, the 1dx is a lot of money and I really don't need one, yet...........

 

[Dylan777]

The thing with hobbies like we have, they know where to find us, and it won't be another woman's arms!

My wife calls my computer "the other woman" but has been very supportive of my hobbies. I actually was encouraged to buy the 300 f/2.8 ii. But, the 1dx is a lot of money and I really don't need one, yet...........

Yup, that what I said too. The next thing I know, I'm shooting with X ;D

Just don't attach your 300mm to it :

 

[Perio]

I tried it at the store...fell in love.

I imagine it's a lot cheaper than marriage, divorce, children or criminal defense attorneys.

I just broached the subject of the camera with my girlfriend. She gave me a look like I might not have to worry about marriage after all... :'(

I must always remember: "It's easier to ask for forgiveness than it is to ask for permission."

get the camera... look for a new girlfriend

+1 I personally don't understand why would somebody want to spend a lot of money on a wedding. It's just one day, which means nothing for the future life. I've talked about that with my girlfriend a while ago and she said she doesn't want to have any expensive wedding/engagement ring, etc.. But of course that's up to you, it's your money

 

[SoullessPolack]

+1 I personally don't understand why would somebody want to spend a lot of money on a wedding. It's just one day, which means nothing for the future life. I've talked about that with my girlfriend a while ago and she said she doesn't want to have any expensive wedding/engagement ring, etc.. But of course that's up to you, it's your money

I'll offer up my wisdom. To my wife and I, it was more than "just one day", as you so offensively put it. It was the happiest day of our lives. On top of the indescribable joy that comes with getting married to the person you care most about in this world, having 200 of you and your wife's closest friends and family there with you on that day is simply wonderful. We laughed and cried all day. Pretty much every moment was almost like a dream, full of happiness I had not experienced. Never again will you have all those people around at the same time. You may hang out with a few friends here, or some other friends there, but to have everyone in one place is amazing. It truly is worth every penny, and ours cost upwards of $50000.

We both have said that we would happily pay that amount again to experience that one day of utter bliss. Of course, it'll never happen, because it's a once in a lifetime event and nothing beats the first time, when you have no expectations or knowledge of how it'll turn out. Perhaps to people who are more materialistic and value money more than other things in this world, then an expensive wedding is out of the question. But neither of us are materialistic, or care that much about money. We paid 50 grand for the happiest day of our lives. You know what we say? How on earth did we get such a bargain?!

I hope this explanation of two people who treasure emotions more than money has helped you to understand why people are willing to spend big bucks for "just one day".

However you do your wedding with your girlfriend, I wish you the best of luck, it's truly a magical day.

 

[Perio]

+1 I personally don't understand why would somebody want to spend a lot of money on a wedding. It's just one day, which means nothing for the future life. I've talked about that with my girlfriend a while ago and she said she doesn't want to have any expensive wedding/engagement ring, etc.. But of course that's up to you, it's your money

I'll offer up my wisdom. To my wife and I, it was more than "just one day", as you so offensively put it. It was the happiest day of our lives. On top of the indescribable joy that comes with getting married to the person you care most about in this world, having 200 of you and your wife's closest friends and family there with you on that day is simply wonderful. We laughed and cried all day. Pretty much every moment was almost like a dream, full of happiness I had not experienced. Never again will you have all those people around at the same time. You may hang out with a few friends here, or some other friends there, but to have everyone in one place is amazing. It truly is worth every penny, and ours cost upwards of $50000.

We both have said that we would happily pay that amount again to experience that one day of utter bliss. Of course, it'll never happen, because it's a once in a lifetime event and nothing beats the first time, when you have no expectations or knowledge of how it'll turn out. Perhaps to people who are more materialistic and value money more than other things in this world, then an expensive wedding is out of the question. But neither of us are materialistic, or care that much about money. We paid 50 grand for the happiest day of our lives. You know what we say? How on earth did we get such a bargain?!

I hope this explanation of two people who treasure emotions more than money has helped you to understand why people are willing to spend big bucks for "just one day".

However you do your wedding with your girlfriend, I wish you the best of luck, it's truly a magical day.

Well, I don't think that I said anything offensive in my last post. I'm just saying that for me paying a lot of money for a 200-guest wedding is a waste, as it's only one day in life. I think for many people wedding is the happiest day in their life, which in my opinion is very unfortunate. I'm originally from the country where people save money for a pompous wedding during the whole their life, and after that they live in poverty. If for your wife the wedding is the happiest day in her life, that's great. But I'll do my best to make every day of my family life the best for my wife. As I've said, it's his money and if OP feels different, good for him. Thanks for wishing me luck, same to you

 

[kaihp]

The thing with hobbies like we have, they know where to find us, and it won't be another woman's arms!

My wife calls my computer "the other woman" but has been very supportive of my hobbies. I actually was encouraged to buy the 300 f/2.8 ii. But, the 1dx is a lot of money and I really don't need one, yet...........

My GF actually nicknamed my camera "the mistress" ;D (小三 (xiǎosān) or "little three" in Chinese)

 

[mackguyver]

My GF actually nicknamed my camera "the mistress" ;D (小三 (xiǎosān) or "little three" in Chinese)

That seems appropriate

Also, on the marriage front, I had a small wedding as well, but I would warn Perio that sometimes there's a big difference between what women say they want and what they actually want. I'm not saying she's lying, but sometimes women will do things to appease us and then later on tell us what they really wanted, so you might want to make sure she's okay with a small wedding. There's a big range between a ceremony of just the two of you and wedding with 200+ guests. We settled on a beach wedding with just our parents and siblings and that was just about right.

 

[Perio]

My GF actually nicknamed my camera "the mistress" ;D (小三 (xiǎosān) or "little three" in Chinese)

That seems appropriate

Also, on the marriage front, I had a small wedding as well, but I would warn Perio that sometimes there's a big difference between what women say they want and what they actually want. I'm not saying she's lying, but sometimes women will do things to appease us and then later on tell us what they really wanted, so you might want to make sure she's okay with a small wedding. There's a big range between a ceremony of just the two of you and wedding with 200+ guests. We settled on a beach wedding with just our parents and siblings and that was just about right.

Yup, that's exactly what we are planning to do Parents/relatives and close friends

 

[mackguyver]

Yup, that's exactly what we are planning to do Parents/relatives and close friends

It worked out really well for us because we had each been to several large weddings and it always seemed that the marriage itself was overshadowed by flower arrangements, center pieces, colors, guests, food, etc., etc. and the bride and groom were so stressed that they didn't even enjoy it. We were just going to have it as us and the minister, but after talking to my girl, she said that she really wanted some of her family there, so that's what we did. We rented an arch, got some flowers and cake, and hired a minister and photographer for the beach. It was a wonderful and relaxing ceremony that worked well for us. Obviously other people enjoy big ceremonies and I understand why, but it just wasn't for us.

 

[R1-7D]

I tried it at the store...fell in love.

I imagine it's a lot cheaper than marriage, divorce, children or criminal defense attorneys.

I just broached the subject of the camera with my girlfriend. She gave me a look like I might not have to worry about marriage after all... :'(

I must always remember: "It's easier to ask for forgiveness than it is to ask for permission."

get the camera... look for a new girlfriend

Nah, she is a keeper. Brought it home and she just rolled her eyes. Told me to "have fun," laughed and went about doing her own things.

She's pretty understanding of my cameras and motorcycle obsessions.

 

[Perio]

Yup, that's exactly what we are planning to do Parents/relatives and close friends

It worked out really well for us because we had each been to several large weddings and it always seemed that the marriage itself was overshadowed by flower arrangements, center pieces, colors, guests, food, etc., etc. and the bride and groom were so stressed that they didn't even enjoy it. We were just going to have it as us and the minister, but after talking to my girl, she said that she really wanted some of her family there, so that's what we did. We rented an arch, got some flowers and cake, and hired a minister and photographer for the beach. It was a wonderful and relaxing ceremony that worked well for us. Obviously other people enjoy big ceremonies and I understand why, but it just wasn't for us.

I hope my gf doesn't read your post because she dreams to have a small wedding specifically on the beach

 

[mackguyver]

Yup, that's exactly what we are planning to do Parents/relatives and close friends

It worked out really well for us because we had each been to several large weddings and it always seemed that the marriage itself was overshadowed by flower arrangements, center pieces, colors, guests, food, etc., etc. and the bride and groom were so stressed that they didn't even enjoy it. We were just going to have it as us and the minister, but after talking to my girl, she said that she really wanted some of her family there, so that's what we did. We rented an arch, got some flowers and cake, and hired a minister and photographer for the beach. It was a wonderful and relaxing ceremony that worked well for us. Obviously other people enjoy big ceremonies and I understand why, but it just wasn't for us.

I hope my gf doesn't read your post because she dreams to have a small wedding specifically on the beach

Just be glad I didn't post any photos

 

[jdramirez]

I was about to say that might be easier said than done... but he could start offering services to aspiring models and open up a whole new vein of potential.

I tried it at the store...fell in love.

I imagine it's a lot cheaper than marriage, divorce, children or criminal defense attorneys.

I just broached the subject of the camera with my girlfriend. She gave me a look like I might not have to worry about marriage after all... :'(

I must always remember: "It's easier to ask for forgiveness than it is to ask for permission."

get the camera... look for a new girlfriend