What to consider when hiring a Wedding photographer???

Watch out for cheapskates who don't know what they are doing. I was a guest at a wedding recently where the video guy ran out of battery and resorted to his iPhone... He also plonked his wretched tripod in plain view of all the guests which was distracting at the church!
 
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Chuck Alaimo said:
AcutancePhotography said:
Tabor Warren Photography said:
What gear will they shoot with?
Is this their full time occupation?

Not sure I understand why these two items would be important at all?

Who cares what gear they have if you like the pictures? The final product is all that matters to the customer. If you like the final product that the photographer produced in other weddings, you will probably like the final product for your wedding. A photographer can have the latest, most expensive gear, but if you don't like their final product, that photographer is not right for your wedding -- regardless of the gear.

The same applies to the second item. Who cares if it is their full time or part time employment -- if you like the type of photographs the photographer takes? This is why it is so important to carefully review past work. A full time photographer can take photographs you don't like just as easily as a part time photographer... and vice versa.

There are so many more important considerations when selecting a wedding photographer. A wedding photographer is a business of which taking pictures is but one aspect the customer is paying for. Which gear they use and whether they do this full time or part time are not, in my opinion, high on the list.

Past performance is. And past performance is independent of gear and employment status.

Do you like the way this particular photographer shoots weddings? There is no such thing as a good wedding photographer. Only wedding photographers that are good for a specific customer. Not all wedding photographers the same and it is important to choose one that is right for your wedding. A wedding photographer that worked well for one wedding may not work well for yours. It is a personal service. That's the advantage of hiring a professional.

I think as time goes on, we will be seeing fewer photographers that can exist solely on wedding photography. I think the part time photographer will be becoming more common as the industry continues to be over saturated. I, personally, would not discriminate against a photographer solely on the fact they have another job (whether photography is the primary or secondary job).

I will discriminate past on past performance.

there are a couple relevant answers to the gear question - Gear is just too all inclusive but asking if they have backup systems (aka 2 bodies) is important. No one wants their primary camera to die on the day of a wedding, but, even with a top of the line camera sh!t happens. So does the photographer have a backup camera is a very important Q.

Full time vs part time - this can also be important, of course it does not truly make a difference - but - it may be a psychological reassurance - a full time, established photog whon't just take the money and run for instance. But also, turn around time. If your full time gig is photography your turn around times may be a bit different than someone who shoots weddings on the side while also working a full time job (40 hours a week punching the clock somewhere else means that's 40 hours of the week that they are not working on your wedding!)

As Chuck mentioned, gear and full/part time occupation play a role in the whole process. I know this because I went from a T1i, 17-40L, and 430EXii to dual 5Diiis with a third in the bag, tons of L glass, two 600EX's and upgraded by way of the 60D, 7D, and 5Dii along the way. My first wedding was decent, but I'm happy to say that I have come a long way in both talent and gear. I know that the gear is not everything, but it does reflect at least a partial amount of the investment the photographer is willing to make in their clients. There is a less expensive option to everything I own, but knowing that the 5Diii does better than the 60D (in my opinion) and the 85 f/1.2L ii does better than the 85 f/1.8 in portrait stills (in my opinion), tells me that if I want the best for my client, I buy the best. Gear, will definitely have an impact in the outcome of the work. Someone can always just buy the same setup as me without having to work their way up, and then it goes back to whether or not someone likes the portfolios they have to offer. We all have to start somewhere, and I covered expectations with my first wedding client extensively prior to taking the gig, but I also know that asking what gear they are shooting with is a valid question.

To answer your question about full/part time relevance, I used to shoot part time. I spent 4 years of undergrad and my first year at the college of veterinary medicine shooting part time. Exams matter. I hated having to put edits on the back burner, or having to rush through them to get them done in a reasonable amount of time, but if I had to study, I had to study. Even during the summers when I was working full time or part time in the winters, I had to be at work. It took my turn around time further than it would have if I was a full time photographer. Now, my wife and I have ventured into photography full time and have the capability of turning edits around faster, all while doing a better job than we had before. We have even hired a third photographer/editor, another editor, and an album designer. If I am backed up editing one wedding, another person can take it, I give the final proofing, and we can deliver in weeks instead of months. Yes, the part-time portfolio can and should look great, but my best work was done with May weddings, right after school, and just before I started full time in June. If I booked someone for Fall, I let them know the timing I would be working with. Having been there, I also find full/part time photographer status to also be important.

Cheers,
-Tabor
 
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Tabor Warren Photography said:
Chuck Alaimo said:
AcutancePhotography said:
Tabor Warren Photography said:
What gear will they shoot with?
Is this their full time occupation?

Not sure I understand why these two items would be important at all?

Who cares what gear they have if you like the pictures? The final product is all that matters to the customer. If you like the final product that the photographer produced in other weddings, you will probably like the final product for your wedding. A photographer can have the latest, most expensive gear, but if you don't like their final product, that photographer is not right for your wedding -- regardless of the gear.

The same applies to the second item. Who cares if it is their full time or part time employment -- if you like the type of photographs the photographer takes? This is why it is so important to carefully review past work. A full time photographer can take photographs you don't like just as easily as a part time photographer... and vice versa.

There are so many more important considerations when selecting a wedding photographer. A wedding photographer is a business of which taking pictures is but one aspect the customer is paying for. Which gear they use and whether they do this full time or part time are not, in my opinion, high on the list.

Past performance is. And past performance is independent of gear and employment status.

Do you like the way this particular photographer shoots weddings? There is no such thing as a good wedding photographer. Only wedding photographers that are good for a specific customer. Not all wedding photographers the same and it is important to choose one that is right for your wedding. A wedding photographer that worked well for one wedding may not work well for yours. It is a personal service. That's the advantage of hiring a professional.

I think as time goes on, we will be seeing fewer photographers that can exist solely on wedding photography. I think the part time photographer will be becoming more common as the industry continues to be over saturated. I, personally, would not discriminate against a photographer solely on the fact they have another job (whether photography is the primary or secondary job).

I will discriminate past on past performance.

there are a couple relevant answers to the gear question - Gear is just too all inclusive but asking if they have backup systems (aka 2 bodies) is important. No one wants their primary camera to die on the day of a wedding, but, even with a top of the line camera sh!t happens. So does the photographer have a backup camera is a very important Q.

Full time vs part time - this can also be important, of course it does not truly make a difference - but - it may be a psychological reassurance - a full time, established photog whon't just take the money and run for instance. But also, turn around time. If your full time gig is photography your turn around times may be a bit different than someone who shoots weddings on the side while also working a full time job (40 hours a week punching the clock somewhere else means that's 40 hours of the week that they are not working on your wedding!)

As Chuck mentioned, gear and full/part time occupation play a role in the whole process. I know this because I went from a T1i, 17-40L, and 430EXii to dual 5Diiis with a third in the bag, tons of L glass, two 600EX's and upgraded by way of the 60D, 7D, and 5Dii along the way. My first wedding was decent, but I'm happy to say that I have come a long way in both talent and gear. I know that the gear is not everything, but it does reflect at least a partial amount of the investment the photographer is willing to make in their clients. There is a less expensive option to everything I own, but knowing that the 5Diii does better than the 60D (in my opinion) and the 85 f/1.2L ii does better than the 85 f/1.8 in portrait stills (in my opinion), tells me that if I want the best for my client, I buy the best. Gear, will definitely have an impact in the outcome of the work. Someone can always just buy the same setup as me without having to work their way up, and then it goes back to whether or not someone likes the portfolios they have to offer. We all have to start somewhere, and I covered expectations with my first wedding client extensively prior to taking the gig, but I also know that asking what gear they are shooting with is a valid question.

To answer your question about full/part time relevance, I used to shoot part time. I spent 4 years of undergrad and my first year at the college of veterinary medicine shooting part time. Exams matter. I hated having to put edits on the back burner, or having to rush through them to get them done in a reasonable amount of time, but if I had to study, I had to study. Even during the summers when I was working full time or part time in the winters, I had to be at work. It took my turn around time further than it would have if I was a full time photographer. Now, my wife and I have ventured into photography full time and have the capability of turning edits around faster, all while doing a better job than we had before. We have even hired a third photographer/editor, another editor, and an album designer. If I am backed up editing one wedding, another person can take it, I give the final proofing, and we can deliver in weeks instead of months. Yes, the part-time portfolio can and should look great, but my best work was done with May weddings, right after school, and just before I started full time in June. If I booked someone for Fall, I let them know the timing I would be working with. Having been there, I also find full/part time photographer status to also be important.

Cheers,
-Tabor

Is the couple personable, friendly, experienced, and do they take the kinds of images that emote the feeling the couple is looking for? Those are the questions that need to be brought to the forthright.

If a couple cares about the kind of 85mm lens being used, well that's downright silly and tells me they're looking for the wrong qualities in the photographer. I wouldn't shoot their wedding if that were the case. That example is much different from your broader point of "does the photographer have professional gear" - which is a valid expectation.

Further, whether the photographer shoots part-time or full-time is also somewhat irrelevant, provided that the turn around dates are discussed and agreed upon and the other aspects of their work are found worthy.

Surely, these points can be discussed in a sit-down meeting with a client, but it seems strange to expect a couple to care about what aperture the photographer's lenses shoot at.
 
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AtSea said:
Tabor Warren Photography said:
Chuck Alaimo said:
AcutancePhotography said:
Tabor Warren Photography said:
What gear will they shoot with?
Is this their full time occupation?

Not sure I understand why these two items would be important at all?

Who cares what gear they have if you like the pictures? The final product is all that matters to the customer. If you like the final product that the photographer produced in other weddings, you will probably like the final product for your wedding. A photographer can have the latest, most expensive gear, but if you don't like their final product, that photographer is not right for your wedding -- regardless of the gear.

The same applies to the second item. Who cares if it is their full time or part time employment -- if you like the type of photographs the photographer takes? This is why it is so important to carefully review past work. A full time photographer can take photographs you don't like just as easily as a part time photographer... and vice versa.

There are so many more important considerations when selecting a wedding photographer. A wedding photographer is a business of which taking pictures is but one aspect the customer is paying for. Which gear they use and whether they do this full time or part time are not, in my opinion, high on the list.

Past performance is. And past performance is independent of gear and employment status.

Do you like the way this particular photographer shoots weddings? There is no such thing as a good wedding photographer. Only wedding photographers that are good for a specific customer. Not all wedding photographers the same and it is important to choose one that is right for your wedding. A wedding photographer that worked well for one wedding may not work well for yours. It is a personal service. That's the advantage of hiring a professional.

I think as time goes on, we will be seeing fewer photographers that can exist solely on wedding photography. I think the part time photographer will be becoming more common as the industry continues to be over saturated. I, personally, would not discriminate against a photographer solely on the fact they have another job (whether photography is the primary or secondary job).

I will discriminate past on past performance.

there are a couple relevant answers to the gear question - Gear is just too all inclusive but asking if they have backup systems (aka 2 bodies) is important. No one wants their primary camera to die on the day of a wedding, but, even with a top of the line camera sh!t happens. So does the photographer have a backup camera is a very important Q.

Full time vs part time - this can also be important, of course it does not truly make a difference - but - it may be a psychological reassurance - a full time, established photog whon't just take the money and run for instance. But also, turn around time. If your full time gig is photography your turn around times may be a bit different than someone who shoots weddings on the side while also working a full time job (40 hours a week punching the clock somewhere else means that's 40 hours of the week that they are not working on your wedding!)

As Chuck mentioned, gear and full/part time occupation play a role in the whole process. I know this because I went from a T1i, 17-40L, and 430EXii to dual 5Diiis with a third in the bag, tons of L glass, two 600EX's and upgraded by way of the 60D, 7D, and 5Dii along the way. My first wedding was decent, but I'm happy to say that I have come a long way in both talent and gear. I know that the gear is not everything, but it does reflect at least a partial amount of the investment the photographer is willing to make in their clients. There is a less expensive option to everything I own, but knowing that the 5Diii does better than the 60D (in my opinion) and the 85 f/1.2L ii does better than the 85 f/1.8 in portrait stills (in my opinion), tells me that if I want the best for my client, I buy the best. Gear, will definitely have an impact in the outcome of the work. Someone can always just buy the same setup as me without having to work their way up, and then it goes back to whether or not someone likes the portfolios they have to offer. We all have to start somewhere, and I covered expectations with my first wedding client extensively prior to taking the gig, but I also know that asking what gear they are shooting with is a valid question.

To answer your question about full/part time relevance, I used to shoot part time. I spent 4 years of undergrad and my first year at the college of veterinary medicine shooting part time. Exams matter. I hated having to put edits on the back burner, or having to rush through them to get them done in a reasonable amount of time, but if I had to study, I had to study. Even during the summers when I was working full time or part time in the winters, I had to be at work. It took my turn around time further than it would have if I was a full time photographer. Now, my wife and I have ventured into photography full time and have the capability of turning edits around faster, all while doing a better job than we had before. We have even hired a third photographer/editor, another editor, and an album designer. If I am backed up editing one wedding, another person can take it, I give the final proofing, and we can deliver in weeks instead of months. Yes, the part-time portfolio can and should look great, but my best work was done with May weddings, right after school, and just before I started full time in June. If I booked someone for Fall, I let them know the timing I would be working with. Having been there, I also find full/part time photographer status to also be important.

Cheers,
-Tabor

Is the couple personable, friendly, experienced, and do they take the kinds of images that emote the feeling the couple is looking for? Those are the questions that need to be brought to the forthright.

If a couple cares about the kind of 85mm lens being used, well that's downright silly and tells me they're looking for the wrong qualities in the photographer. I wouldn't shoot their wedding if that were the case. That example is much different from your broader point of "does the photographer have professional gear" - which is a valid expectation.

Further, whether the photographer shoots part-time or full-time is also somewhat irrelevant, provided that the turn around dates are discussed and agreed upon and the other aspects of their work are found worthy.

Surely, these points can be discussed in a sit-down meeting with a client, but it seems strange to expect a couple to care about what aperture the photographer's lenses shoot at.

Since the dslr world seems to be expanding by the minute, I have had more and more clients ask about the gear being used. You are correct in saying, 'what aperture 85mm lens do you use?' is a silly question, however, asking about the gear is completely relevant. My exact question was, "What gear will they shoot with?" everyone seems to have the internet and if you're down to the final two photographers, and find out one is shooting with a $300 dslr and the other is using a $3,000 dslr, the likelihood is that they would feel more comfortable with the better camera being used.

Also, if they don't care when their photos are delivered, then it is a perfect scenario for the part time photographer. My first wedding took me about 2 months to edit. I could have made it happen in less time but was a full time student, full time employee, and part time (in all my free time) photographer. I could have done the edits in less time, heck I could have done them in a week, but would have sacrificed the meticulous editing that I was doing to give them the best product. If she does not ask about their occupational status, that is fine, but it is silly to think that it would not play some sort of role in the final outcome, be that quality, consistency, timeliness, etc.

Lastly, "Is the couple personable, friendly, experienced, and do they take the kinds of images that emote the feeling the couple is looking for?" Also, valid questions.

Cheers,
-Tabor
 
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Look for: 1) Shooting Style - is it what is wanted?, 2) Personality & Professionalism - is the photo/videographer someone easy to work with and wanted at the wedding?, 3) Deliverables & Timing - understand exactly what will be received, how soon, and make sure it is what is wanted: # & size of prints, DVD, slideshow, raw video or edited, whatever?, 4) Staff - will photographer bring additional help, husband wife teams are common; but, some photogs will enlist 2nd shooters they hardly know?, 5) Practices - what does photog typically wear to wedding?, how do they handle family trying to shoot their set-ups?, when and where do they expect to eat?, do they drink while working?, 6) Gear - do they have pro-grade back-up equipment, will they be using tripods and/or lighting stands - if so does placement need to be agreed?, 7) Plan B - what is the photographers back-up plan if they themselves can not shoot the wedding? (broken leg, sickness) - make sure the back-up is equal to what is expected as well, 8) Shot list - do they have a template shot list to review and decide which shots are desired or definitely not wanted (e.g. guy who caught garter putting it on girl who caught bouquet) ?

My own preference is toward great still shots - candid and formals - and a well done slideshow of stills with appropriate music (maybe 5-10 minutes long). No one wants to watch hours of lame video even if it is their own wedding. And, to have a truly professional video shot, color graded, edited, etc. requires multiple cameras, lots of hours post work, and still takes a long time to watch. Spend the budget on great still shots and have friends bring their camcorders or iPhones and cover the video side. Just my opinion.
 
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Personally, I would suggest not doing video at all a budget of 2,000. Even at 2k you'll have a hard time finding a GREAT photographer. You're going to compromise on both at $1,000 for sure, and bring on the distinct possibility that she'll be disappointed with both the photos and the video. Which is always very sad, and I've seen it happen dozens if not hundreds of times. Stories of brides so deflated and disappointed in their photographer.

Someone said it above; decide what is important. You could have a family member film/document the wedding with a good HD video camera just for posterity; no, it won't have the cinematic bells and whistles like Fiore Films or Obviouschild Productions...

That's just my humble opinion. If it were me.
 
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The wedding photographer you hire needs to be knowledgeable and experienced with photography in the same environment where the wedding will be held.

For example, consider two completely distinct situations, calling for different photographic skills--
Is it in a dark church with no ability to set up flashes and lighting?
Or is it going to be outdoors during daylight hours?

I suggest that you look at the photographer's portfolio, especially their recent work, and see if there is any evidence of producing good photographs under the conditions and location where the wedding is planned.

Ask to see one or two complete wedding photography books from weddings in situations similar to yours. The photographer may not be able to display them to you publicly at their website, but they should at least be able show you them in a face-to-face meeting. Compare the results of three or four photographers and pick your favorite.

One other important note is that $2,000 is not enough to even pay for the equipment depreciation and business expenses of a good photographer, let alone their need to pay for the expenses of staying alive. 5-6 hours of on the scene photography translates to at least 50-60 hours of work directly related to your wedding, and much more work that is indirectly related but equally important. Set your expectations quite low if $2,000 is all that you can afford.

If I worked 80 hours a week for 52 weeks out of the year, and spent $150,000 annually on running my business, I might be able to reach a level of productivity of 100 weddings per year, absolute maximum.

But even in this ideal scenario of the highest possible profitability and efficiency for the photographer, a price of $2000 for the wedding values the photographer's expert time, usually based on 30+ years of dedicated commitment to the trade, at only $10 an hour.

So just ask yourself if you want to entrust your wedding memories to someone whom you are paying an hourly rate of just 75 cents more than the "Fry Cook" position at McDonald's.
 
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AcutancePhotography said:
Tabor Warren Photography said:
What gear will they shoot with?
Is this their full time occupation?

Not sure I understand why these two items would be important at all?

You've never been to a wedding where it was handycam and powershots doing the image capturing... FYI: that was a paid gig...

Yes I know, just shake your head and make for the exit....
 
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The photographer and videographer for my stepdaughter's wedding two years ago cost ~$6K. She picked the photographer after interviewing 6 photography studios. She was shown a number of very impressive wedding sets by the photographer she ultimately went with. The resulting end product, however, was mediocre, at best - and I'm being polite. It turns out the photographer she interviewed was a junior photographer from the studio and what she was shown at the interview was photographs taken by the principle at the studio - NOT the photographer that was interviewed and showed up on the wedding day!

I would make certain that the photographer you get is the photographer you interviewed and that the work you're shown is actually the work of the photographer who will do the job.
 
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LarryC said:
It turns out the photographer she interviewed was a junior photographer from the studio and what she was shown at the interview was photographs taken by the principle at the studio - NOT the photographer that was interviewed and showed up on the wedding day!

That stynks of bait and switch. :mad:

For a photographer to mis-represent themselves like that is unprofessional. Being a professional is far more then just being paid...it is more about the ethics and behaviour.
 
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I'd ask for several things:

  • A portfolio of work shot by that photographer (not the studio, as you've already noted)
  • An example video of someone's wedding, as shot by that photographer
  • A photograph of the photographer
  • A list of churches where the photographer has worked and who officiated
  • A list of typical equipment

The reason for the first and second items should be mostly obvious. You want to make sure that the photographer is competent, and make sure that the videography work matches the style that you expect. For example, some folks want a straight movie of the ceremony as-is, whereas others prefer more of a highly edited highlights reel with various musical additions in the background, ducked during the "I dos". Make sure you know what you'll be getting, and that it is what you're expecting.

The reason for the third and fourth items are so you can go talk to people at the church who were involved in previous weddings and ask them whether the photographer would be welcomed back, or whether the person was a nuisance.

The reason for the fifth item is so you can determine A. whether the photographer is likely just some kid with a rebel who got lucky with the photos on one shoot, and B. whether or not the photographer has the lenses needed to do an adequate job without getting in the way, based on the size of the church in question. If, for example, you're shooting in a cathedral, and the photographer shoots everything with a 50mm lens, you can safely assume that you won't get any usable shots during the ceremony unless the photographer gets in the way of the ceremony.

I would ask if the photographer does video. If not, ask whether there are any video crews that he or she has worked with successfully in the past (and/or unsuccessfully, so you know who to avoid). It is far better to have people who know each other and know how to stay out of each other's way, which is why (IMO) if you can find a good all-in-one shop, you're probably better off, even if that all-in-one shop subcontracts the video work to somebody else.

If you're trying to save money on the video work, you might ask if the photographer would be willing to provide you with the raw footage at a discount rather than editing it down into a final presentation. The ingestion and editing is a large chunk of the time invested in doing a wedding video, and if you're willing to do that hard work yourself, you could potentially save money that way, if the photographer is amenable to it. (Some do, some don't.)

And ask how many video cameras they use. Two is really the minimum, and I would recommend three, depending on location. Ask if they have remote control cameras or if they have to have a person physically manning each of them. This can impact where they can put cameras, and depending on the location, this can make a big difference in terms of what they can do without being disruptive. (With that said, you can often get away with static cameras, so lack of a RoboCam isn't necessarily a show-stopper.)

Another thing you might consider, if you're camera-savvy, is renting some decent video gear, setting it up ahead of time with fixed shots, starting it, and leaving it running. That won't give you quite as good a result as a professional videographer, but it would reduce the cost enormously. Remember to budget for a decent microphone, and be sure to check the levels during loud musical passages to ensure you aren't clipping. Or if you really don't care much about the video, you could do as some folks have occasionally suggested—mount a GoPro to the bride and groom and be done with it. :)

Finally, beware of videographers named Sal DiPasquale.
 
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I would definitely ask your sister what she is most interested in from a photography perspective, before looking at portfolios.

My wife and I went through this exercise before choosing our photographer. We asked the following questions:

[list type=decimal]
[*]What photo are we going to print to share and remember our day with?
[*]What photos might friends and family be interested in?
[*]What photos have we seen that we don't like?
[*]We decided that we needed to own 100% of the copyright, and would do our own printing.
[/list]

When it came down to #1, we decided that formals were the most important for us. We figured we'd never print and hang a ceremony picture, but instead one of our formal shots.

For #2 we figured photos of the bridge & groom with each extended family unit would be appreciated, but further, we realized it would be a great opportunity for some relatives to find family photos.

#3 we determined that the current craze of shooting into the sun would be a fad and not stand the test of time. We prefer sharp photos, vs photos that have their contrast and detail crushed by shooting into the sun.

These three answers led us to judge portfolios, and ultimately photographers by how good they were at posing people in formals. You could be the best event photographer, and ceremony photographer in the world, but if you couldn't pose people for formals, you weren't the photographer for us.

We also looked for photographers who's style most closely matched ours. I.e. some shots into the light were acceptable, but if 50-75% + of a portfolio was shot into the sun, we vetoed the photographer. We focused on photographers with great formal shots. We also splurged on a second photographer to help get the family photos done.

Post processing was another area we paid attention to, if you vignetted every photo, and/or took the clarity slider "to 11" so to speak, it wasn't an immediate no, but I made sure to ask if the photographer would mind if I asked for the RAWs of my favorite shots.

One thing we learned was that once you cross a certain point, for us in Alberta it was $2k, pricing no longer reflected portfolio quality. It was clear that those under $2k were at a lower level, but those over $2k while all good were all over the map in terms of portfolio quality to investment ratio. There were some for $4,500 that I felt both technically, and artistically couldn't compete with our photographer at $2,700.

A last comment: We did our photos with myself, my wife, bridal party, and our immediate families before our 3 pm ceremony, and scheduled 2.5 hours for them. It was a fantastic idea in hindsight. No one was rushed for photos, we got every single shot we wanted, and no one had to fill an awkward gap in the day where photos were happening. We did do another 45 minutes of shooting (aggregate) throughout the reception where we nailed down some extended family shots. Sure it ruined the "surprise moment" when I saw my wife in the ceremony, but we both felt it was more special when it was just the two of us who saw each other for the "first time" at our photo location. We also got to see each other before the ceremony and calm our nerves. Our wedding officiant strongly recommended that we meet before the ceremony to have a chat and calm nerves before regardless of photos.
 
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Botts said:
Our wedding officiant strongly recommended that we meet before the ceremony to have a chat and calm nerves before regardless of photos.

I think that is great advice. I wish we could get rid of this "bride and groom can't see each other before the event. Most likely the bride and goom have spent a lot of time together before the wedding ;)
 
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