Am heartbroken! :(

rcarca said:
I have just seen this thread. My daughters are often "embarrassed" by my cameras. My younger daughter played in the National Youth Orchestra for the Queen's recent jubilee celebrations. You could not have had a prouder father. After the event I took a few decent (IMvHO) photographs. She was totally horrified when I posted one on Social media and I learned my lesson (yet again) post nothing without prior approval...

Proud fathers!!!

Beautiful shot Richard
 
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Sanj,
Regardless to the advices put forward here, everything came out well! For which all of us are very happy for you. A proud parent for sure!
Young adults have their own minds, likes and dislikes, but all are flexible, and in their own environments, peers and close friends, all is forgotten. So glad you did bring your gear and got some photos. We can never be sufficiently prepared; we plan and we prepare, but we still couldn't count on being perfect. Many a times, I look back and say "I wish I could do this ...", but the scene often times would not be available. I chalk it up to experience and hope if the next chance will be better.
Still and all, you took some great photos, more than enough for family use and memories, and should be treasured.
Happy for you and you seem to have raised a fine young person!
-r
 
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rcarca said:
I have just seen this thread. My daughters are often "embarrassed" by my cameras. My younger daughter played in the National Youth Orchestra for the Queen's recent jubilee celebrations. You could not have had a prouder father. After the event I took a few decent (IMvHO) photographs. She was totally horrified when I posted one on Social media and I learned my lesson (yet again) post nothing without prior approval...

Violins Leaving the Stage by RCARCARCA, on Flickr

Proud fathers!!!
I remember you posted this picture earlier. Excellent picture! Daughters rock. I have two. Fathers, maybe not so much :P

About pride, well I believe, our children are like arrows, launched and living their trajectory; as we, the parents - and the rest of the village watch. The whole flight is theirs.
 
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rpt said:
rcarca said:
I have just seen this thread. My daughters are often "embarrassed" by my cameras. My younger daughter played in the National Youth Orchestra for the Queen's recent jubilee celebrations. You could not have had a prouder father. After the event I took a few decent (IMvHO) photographs. She was totally horrified when I posted one on Social media and I learned my lesson (yet again) post nothing without prior approval...

Violins Leaving the Stage by RCARCARCA, on Flickr

Proud fathers!!!
I remember you posted this picture earlier. Excellent picture! Daughters rock. I have two. Fathers, maybe not so much :P

About pride, well I believe, our children are like arrows, launched and living their trajectory; as we, the parents - and the rest of the village watch. The whole flight is theirs.

I like that RPT...good stuff.
 
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Northstar said:
rpt said:
rcarca said:
I have just seen this thread. My daughters are often "embarrassed" by my cameras. My younger daughter played in the National Youth Orchestra for the Queen's recent jubilee celebrations. You could not have had a prouder father. After the event I took a few decent (IMvHO) photographs. She was totally horrified when I posted one on Social media and I learned my lesson (yet again) post nothing without prior approval...

Violins Leaving the Stage by RCARCARCA, on Flickr

Proud fathers!!!
I remember you posted this picture earlier. Excellent picture! Daughters rock. I have two. Fathers, maybe not so much :P

About pride, well I believe, our children are like arrows, launched and living their trajectory; as we, the parents - and the rest of the village watch. The whole flight is theirs.

I like that RPT...good stuff.
Thanks. Cant take credit for Khalil Gibran's words though! :)

A lovely poem:
http://www.katsandogz.com/onchildren.html
 
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sanj said:
I just realized that my daughter is avoiding me coming to her graduation day after. She was telling her mother "He will bring his big camera and everyone will look at me." Ouch.
Plan A: Tell her that this is one of the most important moments in your life and you want to capture with your best gear. Plan B: Bring a less conspicuous camera and behave like a street photographer and Plan C: hire a pro-photographer and enjoy the ceremony.
 
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Happy daughter & happy dad! What more could you ask?
All turned out well and in years to come she will appreciate your efforts even more. All the others will have the "Official" photos and whatever they parents got on the P&S cameras or phones. But she will have proper photos taken by a proud dad - so much better!
 
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johnf3f said:
Happy daughter & happy dad! What more could you ask?
All turned out well and in years to come she will appreciate your efforts even more. All the others will have the "Official" photos and whatever they parents got on the P&S cameras or phones. But she will have proper photos taken by a proud dad - so much better!

Thanks John. :)
 
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Hjalmarg1 said:
sanj said:
I just realized that my daughter is avoiding me coming to her graduation day after. She was telling her mother "He will bring his big camera and everyone will look at me." Ouch.
Plan A: Tell her that this is one of the most important moments in your life and you want to capture with your best gear. Plan B: Bring a less conspicuous camera and behave like a street photographer and Plan C: hire a pro-photographer and enjoy the ceremony.


Plan C+ (D?): Bring your best gear, shoot the whole ceremony, then sell the photos and give her the proceeds.
 
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TAF said:
Hjalmarg1 said:
sanj said:
I just realized that my daughter is avoiding me coming to her graduation day after. She was telling her mother "He will bring his big camera and everyone will look at me." Ouch.
Plan A: Tell her that this is one of the most important moments in your life and you want to capture with your best gear. Plan B: Bring a less conspicuous camera and behave like a street photographer and Plan C: hire a pro-photographer and enjoy the ceremony.


Plan C+ (D?): Bring your best gear, shoot the whole ceremony, then sell the photos and give her the proceeds.

Brilliant. I wish you would have told earlier..... :)
 
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