At diffraction limited fast apertures, lenses will always resolve more than the smallest physics-limited pixels, which is around 800nm (0.8um)...manufacturers are already wary of implementing 900nm pixel sizes...the smallest so far are 1000nm, which are already smaller than the 1100mm infrared limit for silicon based sensors.
This is just
one barrier. It's not even an optical one (because we just speak about apertures). So the used glas has to be very clean and with each optical element you loose light, arrange new lightsplitting effects, reflections and so on. With the new apochromatic calculations, better with IS elements and 18 Elements in 12 Groups or more you get really a difficult formula. To get 50 MP on the chip itself was a difficult work 10 years back... that's not the problem anymore. The problem is to serve them...
Simple fact: smaller pixels resolve more detail. I think that has been demonstrated thoroughly well over the last decade, throughout the continual march towards ever smaller pixels paired with frequently improving optics.
Theoretically you're right, but in real live this isn't true...
I believe under more ideal conditions, the 7D can realize about a 45% advantage over the 5D III
This have to be quite good conditions. Don't forget that the 7D uses the sweet spot of a fullframe-lens, to get the same resolution on the full sensorplane you should use mediumformat-lightcircles on fullframe. That's the reason why the Fuji GX680 performs excellent, it uses large format circles on medium format.
But to get back to the APS-C/7D Owners claiming more resolution. Let's check the facts. I will use DXO, but there are more sources on this. So screaming out "this is no test, I see more than the lab can say in numbers... here are at least measurements (still better facts than private opinions on boards, I think)
http://www.dxomark.com/Lenses/Canon/Canon-EF70-200mm-f28L-IS-II-USM-mounted-on-Canon-EOS-7D__619
Let's summarize it on 3 Bodies:
I choosed the 70-200 L IS II 2.8 as it is wellknown as one of the best performers out there, at least on Canonlenses. So the lense shouldn't be the weak point here. What can you see there? Even the old fullframe 5D outperformes the "18MP" 7D Body. The 5DM3 is
way beyond the 12MP from the 7D. Nearly double. So how can this be? More pixels are theoretically better on resolution. I could explain it to you, but please entertain me with a counterproof

But please more than "DXO is nothing to trust on".