If photography is your living and you have things like liability and indemnity insurance and you pay tax then you are probably pro, regardless of ability or kit used.
I'm an amateur photographer but make my living doing video (partly) on DSLRs.
I see no shame in the badge amateur. It means you do it for the love of it. I see no harm in the label 'hobbyist' either.
By sheer fluke I've sold a couple of images directly and through the getty/flickr scam, but thats because I was asked to, I've NEVER taken a photo commission, and never intend to. It's mine, all mine, and I love it.
By dint of my day job I have an idea how to work a camera, and how to control light, and on a good day downhill with the wind behind me, can even compose a shot. But I would never call myself a pro photographer.
And neither should some of the folk who do.
My final word... careful what you wish for. I was at the video game for a while before I went back to school, and have been in paid work ever since, but I don't enjoy video anywhere near as much as when I wasn't piping to somebody elses tune.