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unfocused said:hbr said:I don't dare tell the wife how much I am spending on gear. That is why I keep our bank accounts separate.![]()
Separate accounts are the absolutely best way to assure marital bliss (Well, actually the second best way, but I digress). We split responsibilities for household expenses fairly (not evenly, but fairly) and what is her money is her money and what is mine is mine. I never question her purchases because they don't affect me and she doesn't question mine for the same reason.
Nah, just merge the funds. Community property and all that. If you've done proper estate planning you each have the other's power of attorney anyway, so nothing is private (except perhaps a wad of cash in your drawer at work) if your spouse wants to know.
But hey, I may have it totally wrong...my wife and I have only been together for 31 years.
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