chrysoberyl said:
scyrene said:
I really dislike photographing people, especially strangers, unless they explicitly ask me to. I feel like I'm being rude or invasive - even though I accept that being out and about, I may end up in other people's shots. Street photography is not for me!
This describes my feelings exactly!
What if the person wants you to take her photo but shy to ask you?
What if someone else ask you to take the photo of his guests?
What if your daughter asks you to take her wedding as you are the only one available at that time? Would you really deliver a quality of your lack of experience?
Photographing people is about the relationship between the photographer and the subject; and it requires experience.
I used to be like you. Was a sport only photographer .
One day, was on a shoot, and my best friend happened to be one of them. She won, and during the medal ceremony she saw me and asked to take her photos with families and friends. I couldn't refuse, that was the only medal in her entire life and I happened to be there, with an expensive camera.
That day, I decided, I have to go over my fear and learn it.
If you respect people, you will find a way to respectfully ask them and if they say yes you go ahead and do it and that is the only way for you to learn it - by actually doing it - on the street or in your own house.
Many thinks that natural look is better, because it is natural. Those are the people who shoot without permission.
Unless it is an event, I always pose my subject because I learned it.
I ask for permission, I take few shots, I show it to her and if she likes it I ask for more and those are the ones I use, not the first takes.
And I am comfortable shooting unknown to me people, a nice way to making an acquaintance to a stranger. Now, comfortably, I shoot unpaid weddings of friends or family of friends.