I agree that workflow is a very personal thing....
However, Adobe is not the pure king of the hill above everyone it used to be.
I don't like the "rental" model of software and have left Adobe. I use On1 RAW as my LR replacement....and Affinity Photo as my PS replacement.
IN both of those, especially AP...the new engine there is light speed faster than PS which still has so much of an old code base it supports....
And On1 has features some great features, I believe it had luminosity masks before LR did? Also, does LR have layers and compositing you can do in LR?
But again, while I agree that whatever tool/workflow floats your boat is the best way to go, I have to disagree with you that there are NO programs out there that can equal or better LR, PS or any other Adobe product.
There are several out there now that absolutely can, and at a FAR lower price.
Heck, give them a try some time....free trials and hack the affinity suite of tools I think may still be on sale (permanent license) for like $25?
LOL...you can get the entire Affinity Suite for like $75....I've had bar tabs MUCH higher than that.....you know?
And Adobe not crashing? Hmm....that wasn't my experience...especially with Premier.
Just my $0.02,
C