arthurbikemad said:
I offered a neighbour some free portrait shots only this weekend, had my 5D3 in my bag with 200mm f2.0 and thought it would be nice to snap her girls all dressed up leaving for the school prom, was told no thanks we have done the shots on our iPhone... that shut me up!
Don't feel bad. I had a running ad in the local paper and local facebook page for free portraits just so I could get some practice. 2 people took me up on it in 3 months. I've had "models" on ModelMayhem that had zero experience that I could tell, except for selfies posted, who asked for my resume before they would even consider talking to me:
None of them will ever be paid models. MM is like watching the pre-competition tryouts for American Idol for the most part.
I'm thinking of making up a fake iPhone University Photography degree to send back to these self made diva's when they ask me for a resume. ("Model: Very experienced. Now look at my 30 iPhone selfie portfolio and send me your resume so I know you are not just some guy with a camera.")
I did shoot 1 unpaid girl from MM who was ecstatic about her photos. She posted them all over the place. Then we scheduled another shoot. She stood me up for another free photographer.
I asked her how the shoot with the other guy went and she said the photos were horrible. Then she asked if I would edit the other guy's photos because he doesn't have Photoshop. My answer was no. I'm not going to fool around with another man's work, and that's not ethical. Oh, she wanted this for free too.
Then she asked if I would photograph her again for free. My answer: "No. The next shoot will cost you $500 up front plus expenses for 4 hours." I'm not getting jacked around like that for free. Especially since it costs me money to scout locations etc. Essentially I was telling her I wasn't ever going to photograph her again after standing me up.
I have paid 1 model on MM who was a joy to work with. That's the last time I pay though.
I guess everybody is a model just like everybody is a photographer.
The lady two doors down asked me to take photos of her kids. We set up a morning shoot. I got up at 6 am, had my umbrellas, flash, test shots (using me and the self timer), everything ready to go. This was a free shoot, but I was really happy to get the experience. That's all I do. She and her children never came outside. The appointment was 8am, I stupidly waited around until 9:30.
When I saw her later in the afternoon she says: "My sister came to town and we were up drinking until 4:00am. I just couldn't get up this morning. Can we do it tomorrow morning?" No. Not tomorrow. Not ever. Don't even ask me. Not even if you pay me.
I've had better luck meeting pretty women in the Walmart who want free photos.
You guys who have young wives that like their photos taken are lucky.
As far as free shoots for neighbors, etc. I'm going to start asking for a $100 non-refundable sitting fee payable when we talk about when to shoot and have a contract with a $50 penalty for no shows. Then maybe they will not take things for granted and be so rude..
Yup, there are photographers all over town (High School girls and Soccer moms) doing complete shoots for $35 including editing, then handing over a CD to print themselves. I'm not going to allow myself to end up in that class of work.
I'm learning that free gets you absolutely no respect at all. No good will. Nothing! Free = Putz.
I can now shoot well enough to charge something up front, if nothing else to make sure the model shows up. Not as a business, but just to cover equipment upkeep or additions, and at least have the subject respect my time.
Totally off topic, sorry.