hbr said:Don Haines said:I also agree. When one throws terms like Nerfed, Crippled, or Fanboy into a conversation, they come with a lot of emotional baggage (that varies from person to person) and makes it harder to get your point across as the moment they see Nerfed, it sets a tone that usually gets associated with extreme (and often unreasonable) viewpoints that spawns even more extreme responses..... How can one recover from that?
Hi Don,
I have read your response several times and I am not sure of your conclusion. As for extreme or unreasonable comments or posts, if I have something to say, I say it once after that I try to stop responding so as not to add fuel to the fire.
My thoughts are that if you are on top looking down as many on this forum are, a certain missing item may appear to make the camera "crippled" or "nerfed," but if you are at the bottom with a small budget looking up, you might be glad that this item is missing so that you are not paying for something you will never use.
Brian
I found your comment to be neither extreme, nor unreasonable. You stated a position and explained it well with neutral language. I agree with what you said.
The internet is a hard place to avoid confusion. My comment was about the difficulties of having an electronic discussion when certain words mean different things to different people. This, coupled with the difficulties of expressing our feelings or subtleties with a keyboard, makes misunderstandings inevitable. We often do not express ourselves well.... and the fact that my post confused you makes me guilty myself....
Your posting was an example of how to converse well, and it brought to mind a lot of the recent posts that had descended into gainsaying and ruined several threads.
What I was trying to say, was that the emotional baggage of certain words can set the tone of the conversation. For example, look at AF points..... if one says that camera X has 45 points as opposed to the 65 points on camera Y, it is a fairly neutral statement that is undeniably correct. If you say the camera X was crippled with 45 points, it sets a negative tone which tends to encourage both the "Canon is doomed" crowd, and the "defenders of the realm" , setting up an argument that can never be resolved and before we know it, we are wading through 500 posts of insanity.....
Once the war has begun, it is hard to have a rational discussion. The truth is usually in the middle, but when people become polarized into extreme positions, it is impossible to get there. Attempts to rationally explain things tend to get lost in the noise, and sometimes attacked by all sides.
It is my hope that as a group, we forum users try to take things a bit less personally, try to avoid emotionally charged language, absolutely avoid calling each other names, not be so quick to hit "post", and get out there and take pictures....
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